Getting Unstuck For Good: The Secret To Breaking Any Harmful Pattern (even if you’ve been doing it for years)

    Do you ever feel stuck in some area of your life?

    – Stuck financially?

    – Stuck in your relationships?

    – Stuck in your health and well-being?

    Like there’s some kind of pattern going on inside – and you’re
    not exactly sure what it is, and what to do about it? But you
    can see that it is really holding you back in your life?

    If so, rest assured, this is very common. We all have places in
    our lives where we feel “stuck”.

    Let me share with you a couple of HUGE insights that help:

    First of all, I’d like you to do something….

    Imagine what it would be like if you saw a big breakthrough here.

    Like suddenly, that stuck pattern was no longer there. I mean
    100% gone.

    Stop for a moment.

    Take five moments and dream a little…


    The good news is that you absolutely CAN clear the stuck-ness,.
    The practices and techniques now exist to completely eradicate
    ALL limiting patterns of thought, feeling and belief. Really…

    Even if you’ve been stuck in the “same old” stuck pattern for
    a long time. Even if your soul has been silently screaming “bring
    me to life”
    for YEARS, it doesn’t have to continue that way
    anymore. But there’s something more you need to be aware of…


    OK, this takes a little explaining, so stick with me…

    No matter how stuck you feel, I’m willing to bet you don’t feel
    that way 100% of the time. There are times when the stuck-ness
    is NOT there. There are times when you forget the pattern and
    you feel okay, even quite good, yes?

    In fact, when you really stop and examine your stuck pattern,
    you may even see it fully disappear for a moment. I’ve seen this
    happen a lot during “Get Unstuck” sessions. As the client
    describes the stuck pattern, they suddenly realize…

    “Wait a minute… that makes no sense at all! What am I talking
    about?” LOL.

    And they spontaneously drop it.

    I’m also willing to bet that you’re no stranger to self-growth.
    You’ve probably meditated before. Maybe you do yoga, or EFT, or
    other practices?

    But even if you’ve never done inner work before, you’ve probably
    had at least some GLIMPSES of the enlightened state of bliss, peace
    and fulfillment — when no stuck pattern is active in that moment.


    When you suddenly drop the stuck-ness for a moment, that doesn’t
    that the underlying pattern and tendencies aren’t still active in
    your life.

    Chances are your stuck pattern has been building momentum for
    YEARS — maybe since childhood (or earlier???) Just because
    in one moment that pattern falls away, doesn’t mean it’s not
    STILL a highly destructive force in your life. Remember, by
    definition, it’s a PATTERN. It’s been re-occurring for a long time.

    Makes sense so far?

    Patterns might fall away in the moment, but unless the underlying
    which cause them are fully eradicated (beliefs,
    tendencies etc.) then the pattern tends to return over and over.
    That’s why our stuck patterns continue for YEARS. That’s why we
    end up passing our “stuff” onto our kids.


    To really break a life-long pattern requires loving determination
    and resoluteness to “finish the job”.

    An interesting image of the “resoluteness” required to
    fully eradicate engrained patterns can be found in the I-Ching.
    For anyone new to this, the I-Ching is an ancient Chinese system
    of divination. It’s a tool to facilitate insight. Each of the 64
    “hexagrams” contains a teaching or lesson in how to handle
    different life-conditions. Now…

    The image of Hexagram 43 is one of “Resoluteness,” or you might
    say, “The determination to bring about a positive breakthrough”.

    It depicts exactly the situation I’m describing — a time when
    significant progress is made in dissolving what is inferior (your
    stuck patterns). The five dynamic lines advance on the one
    remaining “inferior element” and attempt to displace it for good.

    Read more about this figure here:

    The lesson of the figure is to “finish the job”. Because
    when your patterns are not 100% cleared, they can (and do)
    re-surface and re-assert themselves later. In fact, that’s exactly
    why most people stay stuck in the same stuff for YEARS.

    So if a stuck pattern has been operating for years then those
    underlying tendencies are most likely still running. If you want
    to be free, you need to resolutely keep working until the cause of
    that pattern has been 100% eradicated. To get a glimpse of the light
    beyond that pattern, or to dissolve it 95% will not do, if you’re truly
    serious about getting the results you want.

    Hu Ping-wen says: “If but a single inferior man is left, he is
    sufficient to make the superior man anxious; if but a single
    inordinate desire be left in the mind, that is sufficient to
    disturb the harmony of the heavenly principles. The eradication
    in both cases must be complete, before the labor is ended.”


    When stuck patterns are not fully eradicated, they tend to
    re-assert their control later when you’re not expecting it.
    Hexagram 23, “Disintegration,” depicts the inverse image of
    “Resoluteness” — where inferior forces are advancing and
    threaten to totally overwhelm you:

    Remember, your stuck pattern can get worse – MUCH worse.
    And the consequences can be much more serious than before.
    This is the reality of what can happen when patterns are allowed
    time and space to fester and regroup. This is what we want to avoid.

    Of course, I’m not saying invalidate those moments when your
    stuck pattern dissolves. Do celebrate those times when you see
    the joy and limitless potential that you truly are. This is progress
    and should be enjoyed and celebrated…

    But equally, don’t allow a momentary glimpse of “inner truth”
    to halt the advance of the good. Don’t be tricked into giving your
    stuck patterns a “secret corner” in which “they” can re-group before
    mounting a surprise “counter-attack”. Because that’s exactly
    why people stay stuck for years. And that’s exactly why our “stuff”
    is passed on to our children, which we obviously don’t want.


    If you’ve been working on stuck patterns and you’ve seen some
    success — that’s great. Celebrate that. But don’t stop there.

    Keep up your inner clearing practice until the job is done and the
    pattern is 100% eradicated. Otherwise, the pattern will tend
    to re-assert itself later, oftentimes stronger than before. And
    anyway, wouldn’t you rather finally be free of it forever so you
    can enjoy all the blessings life has to offer you? 🙂

    So celebrate the gains, but be “resolute” in your determination to
    keep working until the job is done. (cf. Hex 43).


    This week, we’re doing 50% off a “Get Unstuck” Breakthrough
    Session. Both myself and my team of coaches have been thoroughly
    enjoying the work! Spots are filling up bigtime this week (!) so this
    may well be your last chance to get a session, and certainly with
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    Wishing you peace and prosperity

    – Matt

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    Matt Clarkson
    The Mind-Body Training Company

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      One Response to “Getting Unstuck For Good: The Secret To Breaking Any Harmful Pattern (even if you’ve been doing it for years)”

      1. Willa says:

        I just pulled up
        This link. And this resonates w me! I have tried everything!!
        Pema chodron.. Meditating.. Each day.. “I won’t do it”
        I wake 2 hr after I sleep. Get up and eat .
        I have gotten all food out of cupboards
        Will still find something.

        Sober 3.5 years. I can see this addictive pattern.

        But am and athlete that is 15 lbs over the weight .
        This is a living hell.
        Over and over .
        And each night I pray…
        And it happened .
        It’s like I’m possessed .

        I am spiritual
        I eat healthy.
        I’m into alternative modes of healing .

        I am deeply ready to be done with this…

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